A Writer’s Life..Or Not

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Inspiration struck when I saw an interview with legendary New York Times journalist and author Gay Talese. I had heard his name, but that was about it.

Described by a college professor as β€œthe most curious person I ever met” and that Talese β€œtakes a cinematic approach in his writing”, I was intrigued as journalism was my first foray into professional writing back in suburban Chicago in the late 1990s-2000s.

I needed to read some of this magic, and when I found his book, A Writer’s Life, it sounded perfect. I was going to learn the writing secrets of a master journalist.

I loved his first sentence of his epic 756-page book, β€œI am not now, nor have I ever been, fond of the game of soccer.” How wonderfully random as he begins the story of a young female Chinese soccer player in the 1999 FIFA World Cup. Where was this heading to writing advice? I hit an observation, maybe around page 80.

β€œWriting is often like driving a truck at night without headlights, losing your way along the road, and spending a decade in a ditch.”

Decade? For Talese, yes. Most of his non-fiction books took years to complete. He lamented this:

β€œEven when taking into account the systemically slow and exacting process by which I have always produced prose, a virtual Stone Age method that I regrettably discovered to be my most natural mode, I could not be contented with the paltry number of pages that I had turned out between 1995 and 1999.”

I can relate to being β€œStone Ageish” as I can only post once every two weeks, while others run circles around me (which is totally cool) and I’m still working on my memoir after three-plus years; I just process my non-fiction stories slowly. And if I’m being embarrassingly honest here, I am a slow reader, too. I just saw someone’s list of books they read this summer; it included eight titles. I read three. Well, three and a half.

Anyway, I continued reading and reading (slowly). I was finally on page 350 when I paused; I hadn’t found a single writer’s tip or observation in 200+ pages. I was frustrated because I had already decided that Gay Talese was going to be my next post. I was going to share his wonderful writing instructions with fellow writers; except that I couldn’t find any.

A Writer’s Life is a story of all the stories Talese researched, but not enough to his satisfaction to publish; the strangest, by far, being the unlikely story of John and Lorena Bobbitt. Enough said there.

I mean, his credentials are notable. His book, The Kingdom and the Power, a 1969 non-fiction story about the inner workings at The New York Times, was his first bestseller. Talese wrote a profile for Esquire Magazine on Frank Sinatra titled β€œFrank Sinatra Has a Cold.” Widely recognized as one of the greatest celebrity profiles ever written, it is a masterpiece of New Journalism, which mixes investigative reporting with atmospheric storytelling (SO up my alley.) He didn’t interview Sinatra; he interviewed everyone around him. He is an exhaustive researcher.

I faced the hard truth that A Writer’s Life would not give away any information from what he learned as a writer. Well, shoot. There would be no β€œsnatch this pebble from my hand” moments in this tome.

There remains, however, something about him I like a lot. The very first piece he wrote as a reporter for the New York Times was just a short one, with no byline. When he looked up at The New York Times Building, he wondered who was the person responsible for changing the light bulbs of the iconic electronic rotating sign which circled the building; and who added the information in it?

Well, he found out. He learned that there was a β€œgenial gentleman, the head electrician” on the fourth floor who was responsible for the bulbs and for typing in the news that would flash around the building. He wanted to be β€œthe lamplighter” for the people who are in the dark. I love how he saw things that many others do not.

I am happy that I can still file Talese’s story and style into the massive A Writer’s Life folder anyway, as it remains an acclaimed example that there are endless approaches to successful fiction or non-fiction writing. One can write decades-slow and cinematically, or prolifically, or edit-as-you-go, or don’t edit until the story is in place, or add rich detail, or don’t add a lot of extra prose. They all fit under the vast writer’s sky of ways to complete a story. We have to follow who we are.

22 responses to “A Writer’s Life..Or Not”

  1. Melanie….I love this, one of your concluding thoughts about “A Writer’s Life”:
    “…it remains an acclaimed example that there are endless approaches to successful fiction or non-fiction writing…”
    Love that observation and the fascination we share about writers’ processes. So intriguing! And, as always — with anything you write — there’s a note of recognition! I hadn’t thought about Talese in decades but remembered one of his books — maybe “Honor Thy Father” (I might have the title wrong) on Sue’s coffee table around the time we lived in Columbus…circa 1973.
    And ‘vast writer’s sky’…wow! Yes – follow who we are. Thanks for the nudge! πŸ’πŸ˜ŠπŸ’

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    1. Excellent memory! Honor Thy Father is an extensive look at the Bonnano family – interesting choice for a cocktail table, lol. But Sue was Sue. ☺️ I think many of us sometimes look elsewhere for the key to write the story, when it’s possible that we already have it. Talese hated that it took him decades, but he got there with incredible, award-winning content.

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      1. Ohhhhh! Now my wheels are turning! Sue had a reason for reading that particular book (gah – she had a weird mobster phase…you’re right β€” lol! Sue was Sue!) 😜
        Love the reminders to just keep moving…run our own race when it comes to creating…writing. Xo! 😘

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      2. Ha! That is mind-churning about Sue, haha…a weird mobster phase! I LOVE “run our own race.” That’s it in a nutshell. 😘

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      3. Yup, yup! Helps me to remember that, too! Love ya! ❀️❀️❀️

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  2. While it didn’t give you the straightforward tips you were hoping for, it probably taught you a lot. I love his truck driver sentence. They’re all kinds of writers and all kinds of people and the ways they do the same things in their own way I find so interesting.

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    1. I love that sentence so much Beth, I had to make a graphic out of it. ☺️ And writing this reminded me that we are each unique from our “voice” to our style to our preparation, we can only be us! In fact, this lesson came right when it needed to this week and I appreciate it.

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      1. I agree and thank you

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  3. My writing process is much more like yours, Melanie. I’ll never be someone who tries to write a certain number of words each day. I have become a once a month blogger, though I keep plugging along with my work in progress. As long as we’re content in our process (and I am), that’s all that should matter.

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    1. And I am too Pete! We have to follow who we are and just do our best. Thanks for being an old-time blogging friend who shares many of my same writing habits. ☺️

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  4. Melanie, it’s okay to be, as you say, “Stone Ageish,”whixh describes my wiritng ife right now. ! Life happens and we have to adapt.

    IYes, am often disappointed by the contents of books I pick up–expecting one thing and finding another. Susan Sontag’s Illness as Metaphor is a case in point. Sontag denies her title in the first pages but I found a golden nugget which I included in my recent blog post about Cliff. (I now you read it.)

    I too collect golden nuggets, this one from George Orwell: “Writing a book is a long, exhausting struggle, like a long bout of some painful illness. One would never undertake such a thing if one were not driven by some demon one can neither resist nor understand.” Yes!! :-D

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    1. Hahaha, I love that Orwell quote, Marian! A demon, indeed. And I almost, almost included a comment about the kingdom of the well and the kingdom of the sick. I very much noticed it, I guess my comment headed in a different direction, but it certainly hit me. Thanks for taking the time to read!😊

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  5. Yes, we have to follow who we are. I’m a thinker and a writer, sometimes it bursts out, and sometimes it takes years. I get it!

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    1. I love “bursts out” Jennie, I have experienced that. Fast or slow, I think we’re lucky to have these creative ideas flow through us; I wouldn’t have it any other way. Thanks for such a great comment!

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      1. You are most welcome, Melanie! Yes, we are lucky. It’s the way I like it, too.

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  6. I love that you were able to glean some writing advice even when Talese didn’t really deliver. Of course you could, because you see things so deeply. So this comment from you is so on point, “I love how he saw things that many others do not.”

    I suspect that it’s that kind of depth that you deliver (and it sounds like Talese does as well) that takes longer. Because you have to work harder to pull it up. And then examine things in the light because they look different. That’s the work that pays off when you write posts — and I suspect your memoir too.

    And 756 pages for a writing book? Wow!

    Great writing advice, Melanie!! Keep following who you are — it’s working!!

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    1. Awww, Wynne. You’re so sweet to confirm that it’s working. Thank you for that. I think it was the very fact that it was 746 pages that opened my eyes to the endless ways of writers. It’s his system. Find yours. Honestly, that advice burst into the middle of the post, haha. I just ran with it. Thanks again. ☺️

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  7. You summed it up perfectly Melanie, we have to follow who we are. There is no instructional for a writer’s life because it’s individual for each one of us. But I enjoyed learning about Gay. You know you best, without apology you go at your own pace. Nobody is giving you any deadline. πŸ₯° xx

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    1. You’re sweet Debby, thanks for the encouragement. I know I have to be me and I like what I write, I like my voice, but I play the comparison game occasionally with some ardent WordPress producers. It’s just human nature, I guess. And Gay is fascinating. What a life. His methods found their way to the highest levels. πŸ’πŸ˜˜

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      1. πŸ’œπŸ₯°

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  8. I love your pursuit of knowledge for the writing life, your honesty on your process, and your encouragement for us all. Your last line certainly struck a chord Melanie – we have to follow who we are. Lately, I’ve been overloaded with writing advice – for blogging, books, and poetry. I’ve been offered creative advice for the paper products I make. And I understand the advice is meant to be helpful. But often it turns my work into cookie-cutter versions of others’ work. I’m feeling stubborn and decidedly don’t care too much for anyone else’s advice. I just want to write what I like and make what I want when I can fit it around the millions of other things I must do. It’ll be harder for AI to copy my work because it doesn’t follow the ‘proper rules’. And maybe that’s very foolish of me, we can’t sell things if other people don’t like them, and we can’t get rich giving our work away…. But I just want to be who I am and do things the way I want to do them… Even if if feels like: β€œWriting is often like driving a truck at night without headlights, losing your way along the road, and spending a decade in a ditch.” …

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    1. “I just want to write what I like and make what I want”, that’s the exact place to be in, Rose. It’s a path made for you, and you only. I know confidence can throw curve balls, and creators turn to all the self-help stuff (I have). It’s totally part of it, but in time, your voice and words and themes gel. If you feel good, you’re there! Thanks so much for sharing, Rose. πŸ’

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