A Crazy Connection

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When I read Vicki Atkinsonโ€™s post last Sunday on how she took a writing class from author Libby Fischer Hellmann, I practically leapt from my chair. Libby? I knew Libby from the late 1990s onward when our children were in the same schools together.

And even more than that, I had been in the middle of a working manuscript in 2004 where I was tracking one year of living with a “new” teen; my 13-year-old son, and everything that goes with that. I had really wanted to meet with Libby to discuss the world of publishing. Since my โ€œjournalingโ€ and goal to talk with Libby happened simultaneously, our encounter actually ended up in that writing.

The synchronicity of Vicki and Libby and my own past inspired me to share that old story. I should preface that some of the information Libby offered may no longer be relevant since itโ€™s been 21 years(!) Additionally, I didnโ€™t record our discussion (which I often did for accuracy as a reporter) so the conversation is paraphrasedโ€“but close.

2004

I understand my son will enter high school in the fall, and so his journey has inadvertently triggered my own. What do I want to do with the rest of my life? I’m enjoying writing so much, but is it bookworthy? Can I meet its demands?

I decided to schedule a lunch with a fellow mom I know who has successfully published two murder mysteries. She is releasing her third next month. I figured since she is a writer, she could certainly offer tips on the writerโ€™s life. Her name is Libby Fischer Hellmann.

We landed at the Red Star Tavern, a local trendy burger and rib joint. We had barely placed our orders of a grilled chicken salad and a prime rib sandwich respectively, when I immediately asked,

โ€œHow did you do it? How did you find a publisher? Is it harder to publish fiction than non-fiction? Or is it the other way around? Are you going to keep writing?โ€

โ€œWhoa,โ€ she laughed, โ€œlet me tell you what I did. Writing is not an easy mistress,โ€ she confided.

โ€œYou write for months and look at the draft and realize that some parts aren’t working. So, you go back and edit and edit even more, and usually it improves…โ€ She took a sip of her wine.

โ€œThis is how I approached it. When I reached the stage where I had done everything I could, I found a professional editor who read the manuscript and offered suggestions. She cost a fortune,โ€ Libby added with a smile, โ€œbut she was worth it.โ€

โ€œThen,โ€ she continued, โ€œyou have to get busy selling the idea to a publisher. You can do that in two ways. One, you can contact them directly. Thereโ€™s a book with hundreds of names of publishing companies. Some are large, and itโ€™s going to be difficult to get noticed. But there are also a lot of boutique publishers who specialize in certain genres. You might get lucky there.โ€

Our food arrived.

โ€œAnother thing to considerโ€ she resumed, โ€œis with fiction you have to have the book done, they need to see the complete story, to see if it holds up, but with non-fiction, you can write a proposal with maybe a small writing sample, and get them to bite.โ€

She takes a mouthful of hearty prime rib, while I look regretfully at my salad.

โ€œThe other way to go is to find an agent. They have contacts in publishing and understand contract details new writers are not familiar with. That same book I mentioned has a ton of agents listed.โ€

โ€œBut hereโ€™s the deal, Melanieโ€ and Iโ€™m not sure what is coming next, but I begin to regret not getting a glass of wine myself.

Libby leaned in. โ€œI donโ€™t know how many people know this, but even if you get through all of those hurdles, this is when the long road begins where there is a ton of self-marketing involved. You have to take an active part in helping the sale of your book. Not a lot of new writers know this when they start. In the end, a lot of it is simply up to you to make it happen. And I can tell you,โ€ she emphasizes, โ€œit is really a lot of work.โ€

As Iโ€™m listening, I realize with my inexperience and limited marketing knowledge, it could be years before my โ€œlife with a teenโ€ manuscript or any other book I write would actually hit the bookstores. It is a career for the Super Dedicated. Iโ€™m not so scared off by the amount of work that is involved, but is there something inside of me which other people would even want to hear or connect with? And do I have a strong enough โ€œvoiceโ€ to get it across?

I thank her profusely for all her tips and make a silent vow to get it in gear and try harder to write more, to write anything. Writers write. I make a mental note to buy the book at Borders on the way home.

โ€œExcuse me, Georgeโ€, I wave to our very young, curly-haired waiter.

โ€œIโ€™ve changed my mind. I want what she has,โ€ pointing to the chardonnay, and possibly, to her success as a writer.

Epilogue:

I took all of her information with me, but the thing I thought most about was that she was living proof of what was possible. A woman, sitting across from me, living in the same area, a mom, a little older than me; did it. She was a published author; three times! Now, Libby Fischer Hellmann has written 18 thrillers. I am in absolute awe.

Click HERE for her site.

And I want to share that Vickiโ€™s post gets into greater detail about fiction writing, and offers great insight into building tension and โ€œallow a problem to fester on the page, open-ended and without conclusion.โ€ Check it out:

https://wordpress.com/reader/feeds/132539936/posts/5695305237

And for me, life handed me a rewarding job with Legacy.com for almost nine years, so I put my writing on hold. I have no regrets about that.

I am currently in an excellent place in writing my memoir; it almost seems like it has taken on a life of its own. I take that as a good sign. And speaking of signs, my past writing world intersecting with my current one feels a tad Twilight Zoneish. But it’s a strong sign that I’m right where I’m supposed to be. Thanks, Vicki.

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30 responses to “A Crazy Connection”

  1. Oh my goodness! Thank you for sharing your story about lunch with Libby! I laughed out loud about your regrets…wishing you’d ordered the wine, the prime rib. I felt like I was there with you and Libby. You encapsulated her humor in a way that felt spot-on with the take-aways from being in her presence at the workshop. We’ll add this Libby connection to the list of positively “Twilight Zoneish” experiences between us. This one tickled me to no end. Sending big, big hugs! Excited for you about your progress with your project! Go Melanie! ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’•

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    1. Oh yay! I’m glad you had a good laugh with this one, Vicki. ๐Ÿ˜œI’m also glad you felt the same personality come through as I did. She was a lot of fun; very warm and VERY confident. And as for you, chalk up another crazy, cosmic connection. I’m looking forward to spotting the next one, whenever it may happen. Thanks for your excitement on my writing progress! ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ I appreciate it. โค๏ธ

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      1. Love you oodles…and I’m with you! Can’t wait to see what happens next…these “connective tissue” reveals for us. Love hearing about your writing progress, too! Yay! ๐Ÿฅฐ

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      2. Mwahhhh, there will be something!!! XO! ๐Ÿฅฐ

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  2. wow, thanks for sharing your lunch with libby –

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    1. Thanks, Beth. ๐Ÿ˜Š Life can be so crazy, sometimes.

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      1. Honestly, Iโ€™ve come to expect that and embrace it –

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  3. I enjoyed your lunch with Libby with such detailed dialogue. Oh, the synchronicity of it all.

    And, how true, “Writing is not an easy mistress.” But make no mistake, Melanie, you have the talent and the discipline to see you through. Yes, indeed! :-D

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    1. Oh my gosh, Marian, you have made my heart so full. I can’t thank you enough to have you in my corner. โค๏ธ You are one of my earliest supporters!!! And I am yours too. I love your life story about being Mennonite, but needing to leave it to find more. You knew you had a different future! Sending much love up north from me. Hugs.

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  4. I canโ€™t get the song โ€œitโ€™s a small worldโ€ out of my head now. The world really is smaller than we think. Lovely piece.

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    1. Haha, right? I couldn’t agree more. (That used to be my favorite ride at Disneyland when I was super young. And I did love the song, too.) Thanks so much, Brian. I appreciate your kindness here.

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  5. I didnโ€™t know Libby Fischer Hellmann, but her confidence just exudes from your story of having lunch with her. Along with effort and talent, confidence is one of those things that can really change a writerโ€™s career life for the better. This was inspiring to read, thanks for sharing it, Melanie! It certainly feels like you are right where youโ€™re supposed to be. ๐Ÿ’ž

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    1. And I’m pretty sure that her confidence (along with a strong thriller mind) got her to 18 books! Wow. It’s just getting to that place, right? ๐Ÿ˜Š I think for us, the blogging community and feedback are natural confidence boosters. I know that I can truly attribute how I feel right now to what I’ve learned and who I connect with. It just took some time. It’s wonderful to find your people. Thanks so much, Rose. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  6. I love this – the synchronicity, your being right where you are supposed to be, and the amazing writing about Libby and writing. Oh wow – all so rich. Her writing advice is so good – thank goodness for a glass of wine! Love this, Melanie!

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    1. Thank you so much Wynne for your rich description. I appreciate that. There were layers this week, for sure. Plus, I love telling “in the moment” stories and this was a perfect opportunity to do so. And “cheers” for being able to share a glass of wine with conversation! ๐Ÿ˜Š You’re the best!

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    Great story, Melanie. Isn’t it wonderful when you realize two people you already respect share a connection? Even though you may have had these words of wisdom from Libby in 2004, and the landscape of publishing may have changed somewhat, all of her suggestions are things I’ve read in the last few years. It’s a common misconception that writers only have to concentrate on writing great stories, when, from what I’ve read, it’s still expected that authors will do the bulk of their promotion.

    I’m excited for both Vicki and you because I know you’re working hard on your respective projects. I know that some feel jealous when their writing friends land a publishing deal, but for me, it’s the opposite. It reinforces that while the odds are incredibly long, they’re not impossible. That alone provides me with hope rather than discouragement. It will bring me great joy to someday read your books.

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    1. Thank you so much, Pete!! I’m really glad you connected with the story. And you should! You are a published author and know the ins and outs and the dedication it takes. But yes, it was just a crazy, random coincidence to connect Libby and Vicki, and that I had a story ready to go! That’s nuts. But, it’s wonderful. I feel great where I’m at, and am well aware of the long shot in finding a publisher. But I have to try. And either way, that book of mine will go to print because I’ve spent too much time now piecing it together. Thanks for the support!

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        I feel the same. We owe it to ourselves to get to the finish line, one way or the other, because it wouldn’t be right to put our hearts into a story and then pull the plug.

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      2. YES! I can’t imagine putting it aside forever.

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  8. A fun and informative post Melanie. Thanks for sharing your lunch with Libby. It does sound like things are coming together for you. Congrats on your great progress with your memoir. <3

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    1. I first “met” you because your memoir sounded meaningful to me regarding maternal relationships. And it was! I’m excited to be moving forward with my own. A big hug to you, Debby! โค๏ธ

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      1. Yay Melanie. I’m so happy to be part of inspiring you to write yours. I look forward to reading! Hugs back <3

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  9. Melanie, I really enjoyed reading your delightful and insightful post. Itโ€™s wonderful to hear about your lunch with Libby and to see how everything is falling into place for you. Congratulations on the fantastic strides youโ€™re making with your memoir!

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    1. Thanks so much for visiting, KR and your very kind comment. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  10. What a crazy coincidence! And very cool of Libby to tell you about the importance of marketing when it comes to books. I didn’t realise it till my first book was already out but yeah marketing is the most important thing. As important as a well written book.

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    1. I love how you say “as important as a well written book.” That is absolutely true. And that book does get written, while the marketing side goes on and on. Thanks, Pooja.

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      1. Exactly, writing the book is just the first part. Marketing is continuous.

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