A Personal Podcast & Some Eye-Opening Writing Tips

When I saw the book title on my Kindle, I laughed. I’m not sure if I had ever seen such a blunt, honest assessment and real angst that almost all writers face. The title was:

Nobody Wants to Read Your Sh*t: Why That Is and What You Can Do About It

by Steven Pressfield.

I mean, c’mon, right? It was just too tempting not to bite. I downloaded the book, and I practically flew through every page; taking notes and always keeping my own writing in mind. Seriously, “nobody wants to read your sh*t” are pretty harsh words, but I took it to heart in the most objective way.

Pressfield offered some excellent points on what a reader wants, and equally important, what a reader doesn’t (no matter the genre.) So, I looked at the pages I’ve been working on in a new way. And that’s a great thing.

And the very next “great thing” was Vicki Atkinson and Wynne Leon, the collaborators behind the Sharing the Heart of the Matter podcast, asking me to visit for a third time.

They had read my recent personal post Growing Up Fast in 1978 and wanted to discuss it. Vicki specifically wrote “to talk about this piece and/or your overall writing project/progress with your memoir. “

Well, that’s certainly interesting timing, I thought, as I was deep inside the trenches regarding concept, inciting incidents and hybrid memoir (or not). I could share my recent Pressfield lessons. Naturally, I said “yes.”

And not insignificantly, I realized I could also offer what I learned from my writing class taught by author Marin Sardy last summer. She literally had a hand in assessing the final Growing Up Fast in 1978 version.

So, right now, I feel like I’m working on several fronts, and it feels excellent.

The episode flows with helpful information, insight and some humor. It feels like a conversation with friends (maybe because it is.) It’s not just about writing. It’s personal too as we delve into my recent post you may have read. If not, it’s here.

Please enjoy below:

Audio Only Available Here

AND HERE’S THE SCOOP ON THE HOSTS:

Hi – I’m Victoria, Vicki, Dr. Vicki. I hold a doctorate in Adult Education and I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), and author of Surviving Sue | Eckhartz Press https://victoriaponders.com/

Wynne Leon: I co-host a storytelling podcast featuring authors and artists with the amazing Vicki Atkinson. To tune in, search for Sharing the Heart of the Matter on Spotify, Apple, Amazon Music or Pocketcasts (and subscribe) or click here. Or the YouTube channel features videos of our interviews. Please subscribe!

My other projects include work as a CEO (Chief Encouragement Officer), speaking about creativity and AI through the Chicago Writer’s Association, and my book about my journey to find what fueled my dad’s indelible spark and twinkle can be found on Amazon: Finding My Father’s Faith.

https://wynneleon.com/

21 responses to “A Personal Podcast & Some Eye-Opening Writing Tips”

  1. Melanie!! It’s always a pleasure to visit with you. I learn so much and come away invigorated about writing…sporting a big smile. Cheers to you, my talented friend!
    🥰❤️🥰

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    1. Well, it fills me up to think that I have something meaningful to contribute, Vicki. Thank you for that. ❤️ It was an excellent experience! I’m still pondering some things we discussed. 🥰

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      1. Big hugs! Me, too! 🥰

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      2. Right back at you! 🤗🤗

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  2. I love your ability to, “I took it to heart in the most objective way.” So many great lessons here — thank you so much for sharing and the shout out!

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    1. Well it has been a pleasure and a joy (which does NOT surprise me :) ) to navigate writing and life lessons with you both. Truly. Thanks for including me again. ❤️

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  3. loved the podcast and all of your tips and have requested the book from my library! and I met your writing!

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    1. Oh, that’s great, Beth. I hope you find some helpful gems in it. And I love your phrase “met your writing”. What a cool way to look at it.

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  4. I saw the podcast when Wynne posted it and really enjoyed it. And Nobody Wants to Read Your Sh*t sounds like such an informative book, plus that title really gets you lol.

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    1. Seriously! It certainly grabbed my attention, haha. The author has marketing skills. Thanks for listening, and I’m glad you enjoyed it. 😊

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      1. Yup, that’s how you market a book lol 😂 And you’re so welcome 😊

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  5. How fortunate you are to have author/mentors like Victoria and Wynne featured here and then sharing the conversation with us. Thank you, Melanie!

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    1. I recognize that I’ve been touched by something special here, Marian, and I do not take it lightly. I appreciate their support and I appreciate yours and Pete’s support too. :) I’ve known you for almost 4 years! ❤️

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  6. Almost 4 years, hard to believe!

    Here’s to 4 more. . . !

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    1. Yes! Without a doubt. 👏

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    Your visits are always highly entertaining and informative, Melanie. I knew I would gain some insights and a few laughs. You three did not disappoint.

    There are only so many seconds to gain a potential reader’s attention until they look away. The title, cover, book jacket, and opening lines are all possible opportunities to garner that. When I taught, it was how often I saw children choose books purely because of an enticing cover.

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    1. Ahhh, that is very interesting about children picking certain book covers. Those who market books are very clever. Thanks for watching the episode and please feel free to follow-up whenever with me about discussing writing.😊 Have a grea weekend, Pete!

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  8. I really enjoyed this wonderful interview! Vicki made an apt statement when she said, ‘your story is unique, but your pain is not’. I particularly liked where you, Melanie pointed out how writers need to make sure they find and bring their own voice, and as suggested by Steven Pressfield, one way to do that is through letter writing. That book sounds like a great read and what an apt title, I think I tell myself that every time I try to write and share something. I’m happy to have found you through Wynne and Vicki’s blogs and interviews on the Heart of the Matter.

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    1. Yes, Pressfield truly taps into the “psyche” of writers; not believing we are good enough. But then he lifts us up with ideas to fix that. Thanks for your kind thoughts here, Rose about our conversation. It was a good one. 😊

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